That’s why I’m especially excited about this particular sex position guide, which features options geared specifically toward lesbian couples. MORE: How to Discover and Own Your Sexual Identity
And while we’ve always focused on being as inclusive as possible, it’s more challenging than you’d expect to find sex positions that work for couples of all gender combinations, sexual orientations, and lifestyles. In my many years of editing articles for women’s magazines and websites, I’ve produced plenty of gender- and sex-positive content-from how one incredible trans woman found her own personal style and why kinky sex makes people healthier to super-adventurous sex positions to try. Who we’re attracted to doesn’t have to fall into a clearly labeled, defined category like “lesbian” or even “bisexual”-it can be messy, gray, and constantly changing, and that’s perfectly fine.
I’m a firm believer in the sexuality spectrum-that is, the idea that sexuality and gender roles aren’t necessarily binary (gay/straight female/male) but rather, deeply fluid.